Steff's Love Column // Guide for the Single Girl: How to Know When He is Really Falling for You
- There is always at least 1 time in a single girl’s life where she asks the question: how do I know if he is really falling for me?
There is definitely a fine line between someone falling for you, and someone who’s just being nice! If this sounds like your dilemma, then read on to the clues and tips below – find out whether he is REALLY falling for you.
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The Look
Clue: Men can give you a lot of signs depending on the way that they look at you. This could be in a variety of ways, from constant eye contact in conversation, to always being in your line of sight no matter where you are. Sometimes, even if you just make eye contact for a brief second, you get the feeling that ‘something’ is there.
Tip: Don’t worry there’s no need to hold a staring contest, but acknowledge his efforts and embrace it – you never know where it could lead.
Body Language
Clue: Body language can give a lot a way about whether that special guy is in love. Does he keep smiling? Are his feet pointing towards you? Does he laugh a lot? Does he make any excuse to touch your shoulder or hand? All of these clues are signs that he can’t control, so look out for them!
Tip: Play around and send him similar signals but don’t give too much away because all men love a chase
The Conversation
Clue: Is he finding trivial ways to get in contact with you? If this guy is falling for you he definitely won’t be short of conversation. In fact, he’ll probably be talking to you more than any other guy.
Tip: Communication is important with any relationship, so keep chatting and hold conversations with him.
Hot and Cold
Clue: A psychological factor of liking someone could be resulting in acting hot and cold. He could be acting really interested one day, but the next he decides to totally blank you. This is because he feels he’s already made himself too obvious and is unsure as to how you feel about him.
Tip: Send him good signals and ditch all the confusing ones.
He won’t miss a thing
Clue: If he’s falling for you he’ll ask you a lot of stuff just because he’s interested. He may even turn up to lots of places you are at, supposedly out of coincidence.
Tip: Give him a compliment here and there and see how he responds. One of the best ways you can find out what people are thinking is to judge their actions.
Unfortunately, this isn’t a guaranteed guide to that special guy you have your eye on, but each of these clues and the accompanying tips should help you along the way to discovering if he really is falling for you.
